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Start Your Romance The Right Way - The First Kiss
Written by Marc Sandford   
Friday, 06 November 2009 00:14
The first kiss in any relationship can be a time of high anxiety. It is a stumbling block for many guys, particularly those who have been out of the dating scene for a long time.
by MarcSandford


The first kiss in any relationship can be a time of high anxiety. It is a stumbling block for many guys, particularly those who have been out of the dating scene for a long time.

There is good reason to feel anxious about your first kiss. For a lot of women, the first kiss is a means of assessing a man's compatibility.

The preliminaries to the kiss is as important as the execution of the kiss itself. There are many complex inputs and cues, both romantic and chemical that women pick up on.

Don't think that the first kiss is merely something to get out of the way. The following are three tips on doing it the right way.

1.) You won't make a great impression if you ask her for permission.

Of course you can't just start kissing because you're feeling aroused. You need to know when the moment is right. When there is a romantic tension and she shows signs of attraction for you, then seize the moment and kiss her.

Asking her for her permission lessens the romantic impact of that first kiss. It can cause you to seem weak. Women expect to be swept off their feet by a strong confident man who takes charge. Now is the time, take charge of the moment.

2.) Know her signs of attraction.

Does she find ways of touching you when you converse? Maybe she will trip and quickly reach for you for support. Has she brushed her arm against yours?

Her eye contact with you is also important. Is she stealing glances at you? Is there plenty of lengthy eye contact?

Do her eyes roam over your face? Her eyes may linger at your lips. Does she lean in close to you?

Is she slightly nervous? Perhaps she fixes or plays with her hair in your presence. Are her pupils dilated?

3.) Initiate the kiss slowly, as if in slow motion.

Lean in closer, take her hand, look into her eyes and then her lips and mouth. If there is no resistance, kiss her. A variation to this is to gently play with her hair or cup her face in your hands before kissing.

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