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How To Win Back Your Ex The Smart Way
Written by John Brailin   
Tuesday, 03 November 2009 01:52
How to win back your ex is the same pretty much whatever the situation surrounding your break-up. It all comes down to psychology and making the right move at the right moment. But if you want to make the process as fast and as smooth as possible then you have to be emotionally strong and not let your feelings make decisions for you.
by JohnBrailin


How to win back your ex is the same pretty much whatever the situation surrounding your break-up. It all comes down to psychology and making the right move at the right moment. But if you want to make the process as fast and as smooth as possible then you have to be emotionally strong and not let your feelings make decisions for you.

Just exactly how you employ this strategy as to how to win back your ex may seem a bit strange, but it certainly tried and tested.

First, don't try to get in touch with your ex -- that means, no communication at all. No phone, text, email, or whatever. Do this for about 30 days. I know I said this was going to be a quick process, but a month is going to be nothing as long as everything comes out all right, right?

In the long run, actually, going this month with no contact is going to reduce the time it's going to take you to get back with your ex. Right now, anything you say to your ex is going to be construed as negative, probably, and it's only going to push him or her further away.

So, use the time and space you have now to focus on you, and to do these two things:

1. Decide if you really want to get back together. If you do, then you have to do some soul searching and make a note of what went wrong in the relationship.

2. Give yourself a makeover. Basically, you want to be feeling extremely positive and happy with yourself when the time comes to arrange to meet your ex again. A healthy body and mind will make it much easier for you to stay one step ahead of the game and it will also mean your ex will be more attracted to you again.

Again, make sure you don't communicate with your ex at all in the days right after your breakup. If you've been contacting your ex up to this point, stop, because it won't help. This is just the start of things, too, so make sure you plan for the future and for what you'll do with your life.

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